Getting
Unstoppable Confidence
Unstoppable confidence is the unshakable belief
in yourself and what you are capable of.
What separates the people who
achieve their dreams and the people who languish is confidence.
With confidence, people pursue their goals and persevere until they
achieve them. Without confidence, time passes as the people stay
stuck in their rigid comfort zones, unable to escape.
How can you immediately
gain more confidence? There are a huge number of ways. All of them
have been put into my bestselling book, “Unstoppable Confidence”,
available at http://www.Unstoppable-Confidence.com
Of course, I’m not
recreating the book here so let me give you just one
way.
One way to immediately
gain confidence is to reclaim lost perspective in things. If people
are uncertain or afraid of something new, it’s often times a result
of them magnifying the event or circumstance in their minds to the
point where it’s seemingly a “life-or-death situation”.
Take, for example, a
nervous company employee having to make a speech to their peers at
work. They sweat bullets, their stomach tightens, they go weak in
the knees, their mind races, etc. Why? All that’s about to happen
is them speaking to someone else. In fact, public speaking is the
number one fear of adults. More so than even death.
The reason is because
they’ve magnified the event of them speaking to others as something
very, very, super duper important where they feel like their life
depends on their performance. Nonsense. To immediately regain
perspective, I’ve distilled this mental process into a few
specific, immediately applicable steps.This example is for
overcoming the fear of public speaking and it’s applicable for any
fear. When you apply this technique, your life will instantly
change for the better. Best of all, I’m giving you this million
dollar technique for FREE.
- Close your eyes
and picture a mental movie screen.
- Now, picture
yourself giving a speech to your peers at work on this movie
screen.
- Take the image of
yourself and make yourself HUGE, like as big as
Godzilla.
- Take the image of
the people watching your speech and shrink them
down to a very small size, like the size of ants (Imagine ant-sized
people
sitting in chairs watching a Godzilla-sized you giving your
speech).
- Now, step into this
movie and see through the eyes of the HUGE you,
hear yourself speak confidently, and FEEL the confidence now as
you
deliver a speech to ant-sized humans; Notice how confident you
are!
This technique works
because it changes your perspective. Many people, in order to feel
afraid, do the opposite. They make themselves ant-sized and make
their listeners Godzilla-sized. If you don’t believe me and want to
torture yourself, try it out. It can make anyone feel
anxious.
Practice this
technique whenever you need more confidence. Pretty soon you’ll
have it down as a habit. And when you do, you’ll look back at this
article and smile with the knowledge it made a difference to
you.
| Kent Sayre is a worldwide
persuasion expert and author of “The Ultimate Persuasion Formula”.
Furthermore, he is the author of the bestselling book “Unstoppable
Confidence” endorsed by such celebrity authors as Brian Tracy,
Robert Allen, and Jim Rohn. |
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